Halloween Tips for Autistic Kids By Sivan Hong
As the days grow shorter and the leaves begin to fall, the excitement of Halloween draws near. But for many parents of autistic, the anticipation can also bring a touch of anxiety. Halloween festivities, while fun for most, can be overwhelming and challenging for autistic children. As a mother of an autistic child, I’ve navigated many Halloweens, each with its own set of challenges and successes. Here are some tips I’d like to share with fellow parents to make the spookiest night of the year more enjoyable for everyone involved.
- Costumes: Comfort First
Choosing a costume can be fun, but it’s crucial to prioritize comfort. Many autistic children are sensitive to certain fabrics or tight-fitting clothing. Opt for soft, breathable materials and avoid outfits with scratchy tags or seams. A great trick I’ve used is to have my child wear their regular comfortable clothing beneath the costume. Or, instead of a traditional costume, buy “pajama” costumes, which are sure to be soft.
- Practice and Prepare
For some children, the idea of trick-or-treating can be unfamiliar and intimidating. Consider doing a “dress rehearsal” where your child can wear their costume and practice walking to a few homes, knocking on doors, and saying “trick or treat!” This preparation can help them get used to the routine. This can even be done in the different rooms of your house, knocking on the door of each bedroom.
- Sensory Considerations
The sights and sounds of Halloween can be overwhelming. Consider bringing noise-canceling headphones if your child is sensitive to loud noises. If your child finds masks or face paints uncomfortable, there are many fun and creative costumes that don’t require them. Avoid houses with flashing lights or incorporate sunglasses into your child’s costume.
- Communicate with Neighbors
If you’re comfortable, consider giving a heads-up to neighbors about your child’s needs. Most people are more than willing to accommodate, such as avoiding jump scares or flashing lights when your child approaches.If your child is non-verbal, explain to your neighbors that they will not be saying ‘trick or treat”.
- Alternative Celebrations
Remember, trick-or-treating isn’t the only way to celebrate Halloween. Hosting a quiet get-together with close friends, watching family-friendly Halloween movies, or crafting at home can be just as festive. Gauge what’s best for your child’s comfort level.
- Safety First
Consider attaching a small card or badge to your child’s costume that says, “I am autistic and may not respond to verbal cues.” Include your contact information. This can be helpful if your child becomes separated from you. As always, reflective tape and glow sticks can ensure visibility.
- Establish Clear Expectations
Children on the spectrum often benefit from clear and consistent routines. Let your child know the plan for the evening. Using visual aids, like a storyboard, can help them understand and anticipate each step of the Halloween festivities. Read a Halloween social story to talk about the big feels that come with the day. (You can check out my book “Benny J. and the Horrible Halloween, as an example.)
- Know When to Call It a Night
It’s okay if your Halloween outing is shorter than others. Pay attention to your child’s cues. If they’re becoming overwhelmed or tired, it’s perfectly fine to head home and continue the celebration in a more comfortable setting.
Halloween should be an enjoyable experience for everyone, including our children. With a bit of preparation, patience, and understanding, it can be a memorable night full of joy and sweet treats. Happy Halloween to all, and may your evening be filled with more treats than tricks!
Sivan Hong
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Website: https://sivanhong.com
Language: English
